Reader: 8/19/2010>
Dear Dr Lin,
I read in taoist literature and experienced sensually that the penis during intercourse and masturbation is less sensitive to applied pressure than it is to friction and that for the vagina it is the other way around. Is it possible to increase staying power of the penis ie. time of intercourse/masturbation before ejaculation by training the penis to handle more pressure. Does this kind of training over time decrease penile sensitivity to friction? Is it true that the most sensitive area of the penis is where the inner foreskin joins onto the outer foreskin? Finally I am 42 and have been practicing ejaculatory restraint since the age of 25. This means I have only ejaculated between 2-6 times a year. Some of these ejaculations were the results of nocturnal emissions some due to love making. In the last few years I have noticed a sharp pain in my prostrate when ejaculating obviously because the prostate is too full. Is it damaging for the prostate if it does not contract/convulse in ejaculation regularly? Thank you in advance for your answer