She has not achieved sexual orgasm but faked it for 16 years!! Pot smoking disabled her orgasm ability and his sexual performance

Reader: 7/15/2006>
I hope you can help me
My wife of 16yrs has recently informed me that she has not achieved orgasm with me ever, (then stated that she has once with me but doesnt think it was a penile orgasm).
She tells me she can orgasm when she masturbates, and insists that her faking it for 16yrs is not important. And that sex in the relattionship is not important.
I am shattered I thought our relationship was going ok, a little rough patch here and there, but now? Sex is important to me and i feel betrayed and lied to.
She has said that she would be interested in investigating why she cannot "come" but no further discussions have taken place.
All sexual things taken place in the past I am now not sure of.
How do I stimulate her now? I cannot seem to know what excites her and what doesnt? Do you think we would ever have a "normal" exciting sex life?
I cannot understand why she lied to me for all those years about / during our most intimate moments.
Can our relationship / sex life be rescued or do I leave the relationship altogether?
I am 41 she is same both are regular cannabis smokers.
average fitness
How do I generate an sexual interest / drive in her?

Dr. Lin: 7/15/2006>

Initially, both of you used pot to enhance the sexual responses (but failed to let her achieve orgasm) with excessive sex. The situation became worse when the pot chemicals took over and mimics the brain dopamine, acetylcholine, serotonin and GABA nervous function and reduce the pituitary oxytocin release for more sexual frustration. Finally. she told you the truth that she is very unsatisfied with your sexual performance and her non-orgasm situation, but still doesn't understand why.
Both of you read should read this link , case by case,
http://action.love/extra/marijuana.htm
and
Pot (marijuana) chemicals initially enhanced sex for over-ejaculation and sexual exhaustion and then destroyed and took over his 18-years old brain and nervous systems for erectile dysfunction, severe back pains and no sexual orgasm!
==> http://action.love/cases/case14181.htm
Pot chemicals initially enhanced his sexual activities and then burned out and took over his 20 years old brain/nervous systems for low libido, erectile dysfunction and no more sexual orgasm in 6 months.
==> http://action.love/cases/case13929.htm

Both of you should also read
How to treat pot smokers' common problems for restoration of sexual orgasm
==> http://action.love/cases/case12583.htm

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