You said: "I also have noticed that if he's inside of me and I close my legs I feel more pleasure but since that blocks him from entering me totally. What can I do to have an orgasm? "
This statement tells me: His erection is insufficient to stimulate your G-spot unless you close your legs to compress his penis.
If he has a hard erection, widely openning your legs and having a deep penetration to reach your Epicenter may trigger your orgasm from the deep end of of your vagina - the Epicenter, since you are not a clitoral-orgasm lady.
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You have to power up your G-spot, Epicenter and clitoris to break the orgasmic barrier without pain, although the direct stimulation can trigger orgasm with less work.
Wettness, associated with the estrogen level in the bloodstream, don't nothing with orgasm. Women can have dry orgasms, but may also experience orgasmic pains. It is the testosterone burst and burning that bring lovemaking women over the edge. But, a proper estrogen level makes orgasm more enjoyable since estrogen helps dilate the blood vessel and tissues, in addition to provide lubrication.
Hoever, a high estrogen level in the body will increase the vaginal lining thickness that overcoat the G-spot and Epicenter nerves for less sexual and orgasmic response. It also dampens the burst of the orgasm hormone Oxytocin that initiate the uterine orgasm contraction. This is how birth control pills dampen female sexual response and kill orgasm capacity.
"sometimes not being aroused that fast? is that normal? How will I know that I'm experiencing an orgasm?"
It is very natural for women to start slowly since women don't have that much testosterone like men do. If you experience orgasm, you will feel your uterine contraction that sends a sequence of body (orgasmic) waves to pound your heart and head. You will get spasmic pleasures in response to the uterine contraction pulses.
"All I experienced is a lot of pleasure but I don't sweat I don't feel my heart pumping fast. what can I do?"
You don't get enough stimulation from his penis. You feel nothing when his erection is insufficient, no matter how hard and fast he pump. The faster and harder he pumps the softer his penis is, if his sympathetic function is dominant over his parasympathetic function for erection. He can not have a powerful orgasm without a power-up penis, as shown in
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"can't talk for a few seconds. Is he having an orgasm?"
He has a orgasm.
"How can I intensify his orgasm or make him have more than one orgasm? Also when we touch he does get a hard on but it can become soft again, he does not ejaculate right away but sometimes he does and sometimes he can be hard for a long time is that normal?"
You can not intensify his orgasm without his hard erection which indicates how much bioelectric energy in his parasympathetic sexual nerve available for his orgasmic discharge.
It is very normal for a erecting penis going limps like that. he sympathetic function fires up a "Fight or Flight" command which means ejaculation or erection withdrawal in lovemaking.
"And what can I do to make him have multiple orgasms? keep a erection for a long time and feel stronger with it? Now do you have some teas or herbs for him for all this that I have asked? the teas will be much better than pills he would not take pills at all.."
ViaGrowth-III/FibraTea (item 1-004) and Ginseng Power Max 4X (item 2-007) will power his parasympathetic function for a harder, longer erection that results in a power-up penis for a powerful orgasm with the sympathetic sexual nerve. FibraTea + Ginseng Tea take effects in 30-60 minutes while the ViaGrow-III pills can double the testosterone level in 1-2 hours.
Heat Tea (item 3-001) for women also contains ViaGrowth-III/FibraTea to power the sensivity of the G-spot and Epicenter nerve.
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