Why naughty sex plays won't produce sexual orgasm?

Case Study - Why naughty sex plays won't produce sexual orgasm?
Reader: 1/1/2001>
Hi ! , at last someone to ask! . I am a healthy 33 year old woman , originally hailing from New Zealand. My problem is non-orgasm. I do have some issues from my childhood - mother
having affairs , raped at 16 , controlling marriage for 10 years. I have had two sons (both 10 pounders!) now 12 and 8.

I am happily divorced - no contact at all with ex husband.
I was introduced to a lovely english man who is 40.A widower with a young son. I must say it was a relationship we least expected. After two years we remain the best of friends , we do not live together - though stay at each others homes back and forth. But we and the children are all comfortable in both!..

We have a great sex life , I tend to be the agressor - craving lovemaking at least once a day! It produces wonderful emotions and bodily feelings - but no orgasm.
I love it when Martin 'cums' without even touching me. I have a very vivid imagination, and conjure fantasies - act them out etc. We have lavish amounts of foreplay , tongue work ,anal sex and have a few sex toys, and are currently experimenting with bondage...how naughty do you have to get? ! . Most of what I have read seems to be the Womens emotional state that gets 'disturbed' and the arousal is banished. I have love, I have affection, I have lust and creativity. And I am lucky enough to have a man that will help!

Hoping you can shed some light on this !?
I may just have to get the book!.

Thanks.

Dr. Lin: 1/3/2001>
Glad you enjoy sexual funs.
My advice to you is that orgasm and sex plays can not mix together.
Sexual orgasm requires a highly mind concentration on the urethral nerves running from the clitoris to the Epicenter/cervix along the urethra via the G-spot.
Without focusing your mind into that area, your brain and sex organs can not communicate well.
Sex plays will turn off the brain's psychic channel (the Central Nervous System => both the sympathetic nervous circuits of spinal cords T10-L2 and the parasympathetic circuits of S2-S4, to the Epicenter/cervix).
The simplest way to focus your mind into the sex organ is to periodically contract your low abdomen, vaginal and anal/tailbone muscles during lovemaking or oral sex with the G-spot fingering.

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