Vibrator - one of the causes for orgasmic dysfunction in lovemaking for no vaginal, sexual orgasm..

Reader: 6/7/2002>
I am 31 years old and have been with my husband for 10 years. Prior to meeting my husband the only "sexual" orgasms I had were with a man that I worked for who orally pleasured me at his home office. I did not "enjoy" these experiences but they did result in an orgasm after usually a half hour of stimulation. I had intercourse with several men but never had orgasms. Just before I met my husband I began using a vibrator and found that I could have orgasm usually within 10 minutes.

Over the years that my husband and I have been together we have had a lot of sex. The first few years we usually had sex without me having an orgasm and then I would use my vibrator to have an orgasm (with or without him being there). We evolved into including the vibrator in our sex. At first I would use the vibrator after sex while he stroked me and then he started wanting me to use my vibrator first ("ladies first"). Over the last couple years we have moved into using the vibrator while he is inside of me. In all cases I have orgasms; usually I have an orgasm fast if we have had intercourse first (I guess because I am already stimulated). There was a period of time when my husband was able to get me to orgasm using oral stimulation but recently I haven't had the patience to let him take the time to do this (usually 20-30 minutes of continuous licking).

The problem is that when we use the vibrator during sex I just don't enjoy sex that much. When I say this to my husband he gets upset because I am separating intercourse "sex" from orgasm "sex". He now says that if I am going to make this separation that he will to so he won't wait for intercourse to have his orgasms (in other words he will just "pleasure" himself in the bathroom).

I guess what I need is to be able to have an orgasm through intercourse stimulation without the vibrator so that those two things will no longer be "separate" in my mind. My husband is very willing to spend time doing what needs to be done. But I think my impatients distracts me from being able to become fully sexually aroused just through intercourse.

Please help me bring together my "intercouse" and "orgasm" sex life.

Dr. Lin: 6/9/2002>First, I wonder that you may be under the influence of the birth control pills, implant or shot.
If so, please read
http://action.love/extra/contracept.htm
and
http://action.love/cases/case10145.htm
It is very common for women to lose the orgasmic capacity (particularly, vaginal one) under the influence of the internal, chemical birth control. Some women even become depressed and thyroidism after starting using their chemical birth controls; then, they are foolishly taking antidepression drugs. The internal, chemical birth control alone can castrate them; antidepression drugs worsen their sexual health.
As a result of chemical castration, they turn to vibrators. The bad news is that No penis can compete with the high-speed vibrator. The nightmare is the invisible vibrator-induced damage -
http://action.love/cases/case10149.htm
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After using the vibrator for so many year, I am afraid that you may have scar tissues formed on the clitoral nerves. The powerful vibrating energy can penetrate into the urethral spongy, bladder, cervix and uterus, and the damage the nerves in G-spot and the Epicenter between the bladder and cervix - http://action.love/image/g-spot.jpg . The vibrator-induced nervous damage inhibits erection of the urethral spongy tissues from the clitoris to the G-spot. This causes the death of the G-spot. Your clitoral and G-spot erection indicates a proper charge of sexual energy stored in the clitoral and G-spot's parasympathetic nerves which triggers the production of the dilator cGMP in the clitoral and G-spot arterial walls. If you can not erect the urethral spongy tissues, you can not have a natural condition for a natural orgasm by intercourse.
http://action.love/extra/lovetool.htm
To test your orgasm capacity, you should try my finger pliers method which excludes his erectile and premature ejaculations problem.
http://action.love/love/fgplier.htm
For a normal clitoral and G-spot nervous functions with sufficient DHEA/testosterone in the local tissues, the Finger Pliers massage will causes a huge erection of the clitoris and G-spot.
If you can have an orgasm with this method, your clitoral and G-spot nerves are still functioning and your bloodstream is carrying sufficient DHEA and free testosterone to fuel the nerves. Then, your orgasmic dysfunction is his problem - erectile dysfuction, premature ejaculation or a lack of sexual skill.

If you can not, then your orgasmic dysfunction may be caused by hormonal birth controls, medication drugs, vibrator-induced damage, or a simple testosterone deficiency. please read
http://action.love/cases/case9617.htm
http://action.love/cases/case9317.htm
http://action.love/cases/case10093.htm
http://action.love/cases/case10086.htm
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http://action.love/cases/case9091.htm
http://action.love/cases/case8638.htm
http://action.love/cases/case8889.htm
http://action.love/cases/case8478.htm

For your information, hot semen contains prostaglandin E-1 and E-2 can help trigger your orgasm. Take advantage of the seminal chemicals to stimulate your nerves immediately. So, if he comes first, try using my Finger Pliers Method to help you out,
http://action.love/love/resonant.htm

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